Category: Gaming

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left h4 padding top 14pt color  666666 font size 12pt padding bottom 4pt font family Arial  line height 1 15 page break after avoid orphans 2 widows 2 text align left h5 padding top 12pt color  666666 font size 11pt padding bottom 4pt font family Arial  line height 1 15 page break after avoid orphans 2 widows 2 text align left h6 padding top 12pt color  666666 font size 11pt padding bottom 4pt font family Arial  line height 1 15 page break after avoid font style italic orphans 2 widows 2 text align left Sexual aftercare after gambling can vary greatlyWe decided to write this blog together as a topic for discussion  People who engage with kinks and fetishes online rarely address certain topics  but one of the most important is aftercare  Online gaming may not seem that intense on the surface  but it is a very vulnerable area  We wanted to tackle this topic together and share insights from our personal experiences with online gaming  nbsp When is aftercare necessary It doesn  39 t matter what your experience level in these playstyles is  Aftercare is a way to get back to a baseline state  Even if you  39 ve been humiliated for 10 years  aftercare is an opportunity to reconnect with reality and reorient yourself  Sexual relations and submission require aftercare  The intensity and type of play you take part in will determine your need for aftercare  Maybe you want to be praised and reassured that you are a worthy person  Physical contact may be required  Maybe you need to eat  drink  or treat bruises from a hard or long spanking session  Everyone has different needs  nbsp Create a safe spaceBDSM play styles and fetishes are not just about whips  chains  and control  When we engage in humiliating and degrading fetishes  the main thing is to give up control of the sexual relationship  Giving up control and being dominant in a sexual relationship and putting the submissive  quot in his place quot  is a form of emotional and mental liberation  It allows the submissive to take the lead and surrender to the sexual relationship  This eroticizes the shame and insecurities the submissive may harbor in the real world and gives them a safe space to explore and feel those emotions  Often this kind of play can give them physical relief  They may feel relaxed being in a submissive position because they have let go of their need for control or leadership  nbsp A sexual relationship should not take this for granted  A sexual relationship needs to know how much trust you have built with your submissive partner  After all  a sexual relationship puts the submissive in a very vulnerable position from the start  The ability to push someone to rock bottom and control their emotions and mental state is a huge responsibility and should be treated as such  After you have enjoyed degrading and humiliating your subordinate  it is important to bring him back to a basic level where he feels comfortable and in control of his life again  The effects of humiliation or demeaning should be temporary  It is the responsibility of the sexual relationship to control and lift the submissive out of the deep emotional and mental space that this type of play provides  What kind of aftercare the subordinate expects will be determined by his personal needs  Sexual aftercare after gambling can vary greatly from a sub  39 s needs  Some may only need a little  Simply asking how they  39 re feeling may be enough ConclusionEveryone can use aftercare with peace of mind  Aftercare can be routine or spontaneous  Both are welcome  Everyone has different needs  It is important to cater to everyone  39 s needs and provide everyone with a safe place to experience their vulnerability  This is crucial for building trust  Confusion  embarrassment  depression  and myriad other emotions experienced after a gaming session are all normal  and everyone can benefit from an open and honest discussion on the subject  Not all kinks or fetishes are overtly sexual or must end in orgasm  But sexual experiences and intimacy have a lot to do with our psychological health  Many of us who engage in kinks or fetishes have an emotional connection to it  For us  it  39 s often a way to process trauma or explore deep  intense emotions in a safe  controlled environment  For others  it  39 s simply a way to climax creatively  The large sections covering BDSM  kink  and fetish are colorful and full of amazing ways to explore your sexuality and all it has to offer  and the aftercare on offer will keep you feeling great even after your bout is over 
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